Standards

People love to use words like "high standard males," "high standard dates," and "luxury standards."

Isn't it true that everyone wants high-quality items?

Everyone wishes to have high-quality things.

Everyone aspires to have high-quality connections.

All of these are adorable little fantasies.

However...

Are you a high-standard individual?

I'm probably going to be a little harsh in this, I apologize in advance 😂

You can't expect to have a high-quality life if you don't even try to improve yourself.

Jordan Peterson has a quote that says something along the lines of:

"Change yourself, before attempting to change they world because if you change yourself first, you change your family, you change your friends, then you change your town, you change your country and then you can change the world but it first starts with you"

Changing yourself will have an impact on how the world works around you.

Consider this scenario: you go to a five-star restaurant and observe how the food is prepared.

The greatest marbled steaks are chosen, the finest foreign spices are utilized, the cutlery is of the highest quality, and the greens are fresh and luscious.

And all of them are mixed by incredibly talented chefs to feed the wealthy.

With that in mind, do you believe a low-grade piece of hard and fatty beef would be permitted in that kitchen under regular conditions?

No, right?

Consider how it would appear if you were to see it in person.

When you look at most women in high-class regions, there's always something about them that appeals to you.

They are maybe a combination of some of these things:

They take delight in sculpting and working on their bodies, perfecting their makeup, taking the time to figure out which colors and clothing suit them best, their skin sparkles from the inside out, and so on.

Highly educated (socially and/or formally) – they devote time and effort to feeding their brain to its full potential. They can play instruments, are multilingual, are specialists in their profession, have invested their lives in their love's and interests, and are conversational masters or socialites.

It's your choice; you can whine about how unfair it is, or you can write a four-page essay detailing your entire ancestral history, complete with a brain scan, debating why it's more difficult for you, but in the end, action is what separates a successful fulfilled woman from an angry regretful woman.

Don't be scared or intimidated; success requires hard effort and discipline.

Hold yourself accountable. Practice mindfulness, exercise, and broaden your knowledge of other subjects and cultures. You will not be sorry if you set high standards for yourself.

Begin with a light exercise session, then buy a book, cook a meal, enroll in college, and quit harming yourself in an attempt to maintain self-destructive 'individuality.'

People seem to enjoy focusing on things outside of themselves, things they've never seen before, and as a result, they overlook the girl staring back at them in the mirror every day.

Remember these are just my thoughts and opinions