Secret of the elite woman!
- luxuryblkwomen
- Nov 6, 2023
- 2 min read

Secret of the elite woman; you don't secure the bag. You secure the network that secures the bag. Network = networth, if I have to text you this everyday at 5 am I will.
There are tons of information out there on how to network. (I am currently working on an ebook to add to my website) But we also barely talk about who to have in your network. Making friends is cool but you need friends that will level you up and keep you up there, power is stored in webs. Well then what kind of friends will make a strong web? As your self appointed big sister let me take the liberties
Finance Barbie. Yeah. You need a bestie in finance, mainly accounting, investing and basically banking. Now much respect if you are good with the numbers queen but for the rest of us ladies we need help all year round. When you build your web find you a finance queen that will keep you up to date with finance trends, the stock markets, currency, help you out with accounting & etc.
Law Barbie. You want to never get screwed over? Find you a friend from the law (sector?). ( I would consider myself to be the law Barbie of the friend group). Eventually you'll have to hire a lawyer don't just depends on favors off your law girlfriends, pay what's due but you will pick literal life changing information from this bunch.
Law enforcement. Might be the girl with nothing but family background in law enforcement in me but being friends with a ranking officer in law enforcement will and can save your hide more ways than you can count, And I overall feel safer knowing a couple of people in uniforms got my back. Plus if you're an immigrant the social navigation that comes with a friend in uniform is Godsent.
A religious bestie (if you are religious) . Honestly knowing that majority of my friends share the same faith with me is amazing. Knowing i can talk to someone about the Bible, or my relationship with GOD never gets old. Get you someone to keep you in line. To worship and pray with. To remind you how it is.
And lastly,
5. A social butterfly. We need socialite friends besties. I'm looking at you introverts. ( myself included) . I have an influencer social butterfly friend that has introduced me to exploring beyond my discipline norms. With embracing new social interactions comes new opportunities . There is a special place in heaven for girlies that know who is who, who is doing what when, which restaurant has the best meals &c. Us introverts appreciate you you have no idea.
& sis remember relationships are an exchange of value. You need to bring something to their table, don't be leeching okay? Okay.
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