Ladies Learn From My Past Mistakes

It occurred to me so many times that I learned from my failures and mistakes: if you're in a key career/academic stage of your life (finals count too), guys always come last. Always prioritize your studies and preparation for your OWN LIFE. Dates can be postponed. Men are patient. They'll respect you much more if you choose to concentrate on yourself and your belongings.

Make a simple rule for yourself: no dates or anything romantic 7 days before a significant event if you're easily obessed or swayed. Assume you're preoccupied with your schoolwork. Assume you're preoccupied with preparations. That is all there is to it. They either take it or throw a fit.

They don't respect you or your time if they throw a tantrum. You're the one who knows what to do with them!