Ladies, date! Then after date some more.

Let's go on a date! After that, go on a second date. Dating  is supposed to be thrilling and entertaining. Although it has been odd and frustrating since the pandemic. It's important to understand why you're dating in the first place. I hope you understood what I was trying to say. Make it plain... to yourself... that you're dating for the thrill of it, that you want to explore your possibilities and have fun! Make that obvious... to yourself, if you're dating for marriage like me. Arrive with an eye to the future.

Please don't fall prey to males and other women's fear tactics. If you date numerous men, you are not a wh$re. If you enjoy men that take you out and spend money on you, you are not a gold digger. If you love conversing over a meal, you are not abusing anyone. You can't go through life worrying about other people's opinions because you don't want to miss out on opportunities or experiences because of strangers. Date as many men as you like, but be cautious and vigilant, and NEVER HAVE SEX WITH THEM! Please read it once more!

Enjoy yourself. Get dolled up and mesmerize a few men but know what you want. 🥂