it's not your responsibility...

.....to take care of everything and everyone around you, all the time.

it's great if you take care of your loved ones and surely is a reflection of the kindness inside your heart but you are not obligated to do when you aren't feeling up to it.

Allow no one to take advantage of your generosity in any way. You can only be useful if you are pleased and respected. Helping individuals who are resentful of you is not a pleasant situation for you or them.

Before you pour out your feelings and kindness for others, make sure your own cup is full. Consider yourself as well, and not as an afterthought.