How do you become more high maintenance in your dating life !

How do you become more high maintenance in your dating life, Are you not sure what you should ask in the men you date ?

The secret to being a high-maintenance spouse, in my opinion, is to be a high-maintenance lady in your daily life. When you've grown accustomed to a particular level of self-care and treatment, it's illogical to expect anything less from a man, or anybody else for that matter.

It really doesn't make sense for you to date someone who doesn't value dates or dining experiences if you and your friends are used to lavish dinners on the weekends. If your partner can't go out of his way to find a new restaurant and make a reservation, he plainly isn't up to the level you've set for yourself.

You set the bar.

Based on how you treat yourself, you set the bar for him. This is true of everything. Learn to take care of yourself and treat yourself properly, so that when a man comes along, you already know what that looks like because you already live in that reality.

Because you've previously imposed it on yourself, you'll know what high effort looks like. It's then rather simple to determine whether or not this man fits your lifestyle and, if so, whether he can improve it.

High standards and High Self Esteem go hand in hand. When you standards are high and you're firm with your boundaries, you will repel a lot of men- men that are only out to take advantage of you.