Go On A Date

Once you've met a man, you'll need to make plans to go on a date with him. You'll remain a pen pal forever if you don't start planning a date with him after a day or two of talking to him and he doesn't take you out within a week.

Some guys prefer to have women they can text whenever they want and use as entertainment, but if you want a meaningful relationship, you should look for a man who wants to take you out instead of wasting time on the phone.

If a man starts asking you to FaceTime and give him your attention when he can’t take you out then you need to move on, there’s no reason why he should be allowed to have phone dates with you.

There's nothing wrong with putting your foot down and telling the man you're talking to that you prefer to shoot for in-person dates within three days of talking, planning a date, and going out with someone who wants to take you out, because a lot of men enjoy wasting time and even more of them are just looking for casual fun.